Well, it's that time of year again. Can you believe it's December in a few days? Personally, I'm struggling with the long dark nights, but am working on embracing the cosiness of candles and blankets and reading good books. I am a summer girl at heart,...
It's no secret we live busy, chaotic lives. Most of us experience stress on a regular basis, and it can feel hard to find peace and stillness. In workshops and 1:1 work I talk regularly about taming self-sabotage, being compassionate to ourselves, and being with our...
Yesterday I delivered a workshop on Wellbeing and Technology at the Civil Society Media Charity Technology Conference. We had about thirty people in the room exploring the costs of technology, whether we are addicted to our technology, what we want our relationship with technology to be like, and...
As an introvert, I am relaxed and happy in my own company. I can spend hours reading or contemplating or exercising (hours doing exercise? Not sure about that one Massarella..!) or watching things on the box. But what I also have a habit of doing is...
Working in the charity sector feels like a never-ending list of to-dos. There is always more that can be done; more supporting, more campaigning, more fundraising, more developing. This perspective, which permeates the sector, keeps us in 'perpetually busy' mode. We're always on, always moving, always...
When I worked with my first coach, six years ago now, I expected positive change to happen immediately for me. I wanted my self-sabotage to disappear overnight, I expected my own coaching business to take flight immediately and soar. In this world of immediacy, I wanted everything...
Thank you to all those who shared thoughts and feedback in response to last week's blog. It's lovely to both hear your support and to hear what you are doing to support yourselves as well. So, an update, after sending the blog last week I very...
At the moment I am not nailing my self-care. This feels vulnerable to share given that I'm an advocate for looking after yourself in order to be of service to others. But for some reason, I've fallen off the wagon a little bit. This morning I...
Nonsense is everywhere. My definition of nonsense is 'actions and words that make situations more complicated, noisier, and are not at all aligned with personal or organisational values, vision or purpose.' Nonsense can be found in organisations, in relationships and sometimes in our own brains. Nonsense is...
When you do a job that involves supporting others in some way it can feel challenging, overwhelming and emotionally tiring. It's natural to feel this way when working in the not-for-profit or public sector. When the emphasis is always on helping others it can be easy...