Searching for something that sets you alight is totally ok. You are not alone. You are not lost. It’s not worrying that you haven’t found your thing yet. The searching is what it’s all about.
Making mistakes, taking risks, trying things and hating them, trying other things and loving them, trying things and just being with whatever happens, and knowing you will deal with it; you are learning, growing and living.
Whatever you are doing right now is absolutely perfect, even though it might not feel perfect because you’re experiencing that pressure to ‘finally settle down’. But in actual fact having ideas, passions, ambitions and drive is a gift, and perhaps it’s society that isn’t ready for you, rather than vice versa. So it’s time to take matters into your own hands and create your own experience of life that might not quite fit into the society’s normal default scenario.
You are not alone. You are not lost. It’s not worrying that you haven’t found your thing yet. The searching is what it’s all about.